The Elixir ← The Elixir

The Tiny Things Are Not Tiny

I went for a run this morning.

That should not be news.

But it felt like news to my body.

Because I have not run in over a month.

A month ago, I was running three times a week.

Regularly.

Ten miles at a time.

I had rhythm.

I had momentum.

Then, somehow, it vanished.

Not dramatically.

No injury.

Just a missed run.

Then another.

Then a holiday.

Then a break.

Then a week where it didn’t quite fit.

Then a month had gone by and…

Poof.

Like magic, I had replaced morning running with chocolate croissants.

And added 2kg to my waistline!

This morning, I laced up my shoes and went out again.

And it felt like I had never run before.

My legs were heavy.

My lungs were confused.

My pace was insulting.

The version of me who could casually run ten miles felt like someone I had once read about in a book.

That is the annoying thing about progress.

It takes a long time to build.

And it can fade faster than you think.

For good or bad, everything compounds.

A skipped run is nothing.

A skipped month is something.

A bad meal is nothing.

A bad year is something.

One distracted morning is nothing.

A distracted life is something.

This is why direction matters more than speed.

It does not matter how fast you are moving if you are moving towards something worthless.

You can be productive in the wrong direction.

So the first question is not:

“How do I do more?”

The first question is:

“What is worth doing?”

The real power is choosing the right thing, then showing up for it again and again.

I try to invest my time, energy and attention in things I know I’ll still want to show up for in 10, 20 or 30 years.

That is where compounding becomes unfair.

Not in the thing you force yourself to do for a few intense weeks.

But in the thing you keep coming back to for decades.

So it is worth thinking hard about what is worth it for you.

What gives you energy?

What makes you feel more like yourself?

What would still be worth doing, even if the results came slowly?

Running is one of those things for me.

I can take a month off.

I can replace discipline with pastries.

I can lose the rhythm.

But I know, eventually, I will lace up my shoes and go again.

Because it gives me energy.

Because it clears my head.

Because even when I am bad at it, I am better for having done it.

That is the real game.

Not falling off for years at a time.

But choosing things worth returning to.

Again.

And again.

And again.

Then doing the boring, beautiful work of showing up.

Every tiny return to the right thing counts.

And over time, those tiny things stop being tiny.

They become your health.

Your work.

Your relationships.

Your confidence.

Your life.

So choose carefully.

Then keep coming back.

The tiny things are not tiny.

Have the best week ahead

Kia Kaha & love

Chris Xx

“Success is the product of daily habits, not once-in-a-lifetime transformations.”

James Clear